Making big decisions can be daunting, whether moving to a new city, changing careers, or choosing the next step in your genealogical research. As genealogists, we often find ourselves at a crossroads, wondering which path will lead to the most fruitful discoveries. Here are some insights on tackling those big decisions, filled with personal anecdotes and practical tips.
Reflect on Your Goals
First, let’s take a step back and look at the big picture. What are your goals? Are you trying to break through a brick wall in your research? Maybe you’re debating whether to invest in a new genealogy tool or take a research trip to Europe. Reflect on what you hope to achieve.
For instance, I remember when I was deciding whether to dive into the “German and Swiss Settlers in America, 1700s-1800s Immigration Records” over 20 years ago. It seemed like a big commitment at the time, but reflecting on my goal to trace my German ancestors helped me make the decision. And it was one of the most useful resources in my genealogical journey.
Gather Information
Once you have your goals in mind, gather as much information as possible. This step is crucial. In genealogy, we know the importance of thorough research. Apply that same diligence to your decision-making process. Look for reviews of that new genealogy software, talk to other genealogists who have taken similar research trips, and read up on the places you’re considering visiting.
I once faced the decision of whether to visit the Walt Disney Museum in Marceline, Missouri. It wasn’t directly related to my genealogy work, but my wife and I love history. So, we did our research, and the trip was an incredible experience, filled with rich history and inspiration for my genealogy projects.
List the Pros and Cons
Creating a pros and cons list is a classic but effective method. Write down all the potential benefits and drawbacks of each option. This visual aid can clarify your thoughts and help you see the situation from different angles.
Consult with Others
Don’t hesitate to seek advice from friends, family, or fellow genealogists. Sometimes, an outside perspective can provide insights you hadn’t considered. They might have experience or knowledge that can shed light on your situation.
Trust Your Gut
While data and advice are essential, sometimes you must trust your instincts. That gut feeling often stems from a deep, subconscious understanding of your needs and desires. It might be worth listening to that inner voice if one option feels right, even if you can’t explain why.
I remember feeling an inexplicable pull toward researching my ancestors from West Virginia. Despite having limited information initially, my instincts told me there was a story worth uncovering. Trusting that feeling led me to some of the most profound discoveries in my genealogical work.
Consider the Long-Term Impact
Think about how your decision will affect you in the long run. Will it help you grow as a genealogist? Will it bring you closer to your goals? Sometimes, the benefits of a decision aren’t immediate but can be significant over time.
Deciding to write a weekly genealogy newsletter for Ancestral Findings was a big commitment. But thinking about the long-term impact – connecting with readers, sharing valuable insights, and continually learning – made the decision easier.
Take Action
Once you’ve weighed all the factors, it’s time to decide and take action. Remember, no decision is set in stone. You can always adjust your course if things don’t go as planned. The key is to start moving forward.
When I first started using the German and Swiss Settlers records, I took a leap of faith. But that action opened doors to countless discoveries and connections I hadn’t imagined.
Reflect and Learn
After making your decision, take time to reflect on the outcome. What did you learn from the experience? How did it help you grow? Even if things don’t go as planned, there’s always a lesson to be learned.
For example, our trip to the Walt Disney Museum in Marceline enriched our understanding of Walt Disney and sparked new ideas for my genealogy projects. It was a reminder of the unexpected benefits of following your curiosity and making bold decisions.
Making big decisions can be intimidating, but with a clear process and a bit of faith, you can navigate these moments with confidence. Whether it’s a major life change or a new direction in your genealogical research, remember to reflect on your goals, gather information, consult with others, and trust your instincts. Every decision is a step forward on your journey.
Happy Searching, and may your genealogical adventures be filled with exciting discoveries and rewarding decisions!
